Moving on... My Aiden had his Spring Break last week. He has been home with us for 19 months and this was my first successful school break with him to date! I should define success in the Behrens' home. Success looks like no tantrums, minimal responses with anger, good communication, and relaxing with each other. I have seen Aiden grow tremendously over the last few months. Yes, we have had a few set backs, but with the right response we have actually propelled forward. All in all, trust is continuing to develop and the "forever" concept for my little man is becoming a reality. If you need a good parenting tool, I whole heartily recommend Danny Silk's series called, Loving Our Kids On Purpose. Excellent resource!!
I am absolutely confident that every mom at some point watches their child and is still in awe of that little one or big one. The other day I stopped and watched Ethan and was so overwhelmed by God's goodness in my family. Both of my boys are miracles. I look at Aiden and see his strength and determination. I also see his compassion and desire to love and be loved. My Ethan is fun-loving and adventurous. I never want to forget what God has done for my family. My heart as a mommy, even in the midst of crying and craziness, I want to remember the miracle and raise my boys to love God.
On that note, Spring is here!! Get outside and enjoy every moment with your children, spouse, and friends!! I love this time of year!
